What's in mind?

Words are more than the sounds we make or the symbols we write. They are the threads that weave the fabric of human connection. Words have the power to wound, heal, shape relationships, and shape perceptions. In conversations, the choice of words can build bridges or erect walls, foster understanding or sow discord. From childhood, we are taught the basics of language. How to ask, how to answer, and how to tell stories. But rarely are we taught how to speak with empathy, listen without preparing our reply, or use words to express ourselves. These are the very skills that determine the quality of our lives. In everyday life, conversations are the currency of connection. Whether in personal relationships, professional settings, or interactions with strangers, the words we choose shape how others perceive us and how we perceive ourselves. The words that are kind, clear, and purposeful can build trust, resolve conflicts, and foster mutual respect. Improper words can escalate misunderstan...

The question of talent and skill lies in the quiet space between what we are and what we might become. Sometimes, talent and skill are used interchangeably, but they are fundamentally different. Talent is the natural ability someone is born with or a potential that seems to come effortlessly. Skill is acquired. It’s the product of practice, repetition, and dedication over time. While talent might give someone a head start, skill is what truly shapes long-term success. Talent is mysterious and is often seen as a gift. These abilities can manifest early and can provide a noticeable advantage. To have talent is to begin with a head start, a promise of what could be if one only followed the thread. Talent alone is not enough. Talent is like a seed. Full of potential but lifeless until buried, watered, and tested by time. Left alone, talent can wither into regret. Skill is sacred because it is earned. Skill can be acquired through effort, discipline, and time. Skills are developed and per...

Essentialism is the deliberate practice of focusing only on what is essential. It advocates for the intentional prioritization of what is most valuable, meaningful, and impactful. The foundations of essentialism are deeply philosophical, rooted in questions of identity, value, and human flourishing. Essentialism emphasizes quality over quantity. It means saying no to good opportunities to say yes to the right ones. It means choosing depth over breadth, focus over frenzy. It requires courage to let go of social expectations, to risk disappointing others, and to define success on our terms. It feels uncomfortable at first, but in the long term, the reward is a life with greater clarity, energy, and meaning. Essentialism can be traced to several philosophical traditions. Stoic philosophy emphasized the importance of distinguishing between what is within one’s control and what is not. Existentialist philosophers stress the necessity of living authentically and deliberately by one’s value...

Life is an unpredictable journey that everyone walks at their own pace. Life is what you experience. Each step forward comes with moments of joy, uncertainty, challenge, and discovery. Life is complex, but there are a few universal truths that can help us navigate this journey with clarity, compassion, and a sense of peace. Life is about accepting its impermanence, embracing growth, connecting with others, finding joy in simplicity, accepting suffering as part of the journey, making conscious choices, and leading with love. These truths help us navigate life with a sense of meaning, purpose, and fulfillment. Life Is Impermanent Everything is in a constant state of change. The people we love, the experiences we cherish, and even the struggles we face are transient. In a world that encourages us to hold onto the things we have, it isn't easy. Embracing impermanence can bring a sense of freedom. It helps us let go of attachments to outcomes. Nothing lasts forever, whether the hig...